When the Artemis II astronauts returned from the far side of the moon, words fail us in describing their immense bravery, as well as the spectacular feat of science and group coordination. Their accomplishments capture our imagination. We are in awe. We wonder if there is any part of us that could begin to demonstrate that degree of bravery and grit. Yes, they are trained. They are prepared, but the unknown was still ahead of them on the journey.
Does this dynamic sound familiar to you? Did you find yourself or your loved one on their own extraordinary journey when life is threatened by an unexpected force? When a diagnosis of cancer is made, it can be shocking, life altering, inspiring fear, confusion and anxiety. Frankly, it can be terrible and terrifying. Do we have within each of us the grit and determination required? Can we face this with fearlessness?
Millie tells me “no“. She sits timidly on the edge of the exam table as we review the films on the screen next to her. She cannot comprehend. Her eyes are wide and tear filled. “Doc, I have never been brave“. That Millie wants to give up without a fight is actually palpable. She is not alone. Over the years, some patients have expressed a fatalistic approach to the diagnosis. I am never surprised when people are overwhelmed. Regardless the gentle touch of guidance and support, everyone comes to this journey from their own personal perspective, history and experience.
George on the other hand, is just pissed off. The terrible diagnosis of pancreatic cancer is blindsiding him at the age of 53. He has teenagers to get through college, a job to work for his health insurance, a mother to care for in her elderly years. George is willing to tap into every single new and exciting advancement in pancreatic cancer treatment his “bring it on“ mentality is meant to demand our attention and support with a no holds barred plan of attack. The fact that it is for others adds urgency and power.
Between these two scenarios, Jason presents with a devastating brain tumor related to his time at Camp Lejeune. The toxicity overwhelming his body at a young age of 30. He has not even started to have a family or children or career. His 60-year-old mother offers the support, holding them both up, and he is willing to do whatever he can to soothe her aching heart.
What the amazing astronauts have taught us, and even expressed, is humility and the fact that so many others were involved with their success. You as well, are not alone. Science, technology, immunotherapies, new drugs and deliveries to help us cure cancer or at least live better with it, are all conspiring. The entire staff at the Cancer center has one focus. They are supporting you and they are on your side. Family and friends surround you and their heart and soul is with you. Your own extraordinary journey will bring you as well to a place of peace and extraordinary gratitude, which will boost your immune system and give you fortitude. You actually cannot travel this alone. The brave astronauts did not rely on science alone. They frequently brought God into the “space”. You can too. When you are overwhelmed, push the pressure off your shoulders and into your prayers. Believe that you can move from your own extraordinary journey to being extraordinary.