While the fierce snow, ice and chaos reign in much of the US this weekend, I recall practicing in snowy NW PA. I quickly learned to navigate treacherous roads, throw the shovel in the car and show up. Nothing deterred patients with cancer. They were already brave, so the center (and even schools) never closed. I leaned on their bravery. I was also the director of the hospice program and had concern for the nurses driving into rural areas. The chief nurse said, “Dr. Dragun, it is no problem. Just go.” Funny how many times that phrase comes to mind. The literal directive in hurricanes and storms here in Florida, the psychological or emotional moments of confusion and crisis, and even at times of pain and distress. Plowing ahead through challenges is something we have all gotten pretty good at.
People learn to navigate quickly and soon the threat is less intense. The challenges are faced down. You continue again and again to “ Just go” and never look back. You value time, friends, loved ones, even work and a daily walk more. You become resilient with renewed power and focus. You never cower. For some, you may need the snow plow, blower and shovel to make your way, but you get on that road and expect success at every turn.
You surprise your spouse and family and they also breathe relief as you power through whatever comes your way. They can hug you again and again but they no longer need to pat your head. You are lifting everyone, helping them all to just go.
The news and weather channel reports this weekend are leaning into fright and dismay. At least they keep people from heading out foolishly. But, if you have cancer and the center is open, if there are tests and treatments, if you in the midst of your struggle, we know you will be there. You are never frightened. You never give up or give in, because you have learned in a long life of successes and challenges, that the directive to “ Just go” will propel you to victory.
Stay safe friends and family. This storm is a good reason to tuck into a cozy Sunday of playoff football. Don’t overdo the shoveling. Perhaps even enjoy the wintery beauty, but most of all, let nothing deter your own mission. God Bless.